Bernhard........such is the continuing complication of the o-ring
when the o-ring is not at fault
If the engine manufacturer 'Graham' can supply original o-rings as spares and at an acceptable cost.....well & good
I choose not to comment on your suppliers reference on EPDM as a superior elastomer, .......as the Parker reference [below] advises that this EPDM is not compatible with mineral oil....
[maybe he is an 18 year old quoting his today's knowledge from a computer screen...and yes ..obviously so importantly quoting temperature limitations in degrees Fahrenheit to the
4th decimal place ]
[possibly this makes my 50+ years in fluid engineering prior retirement old school]
Now we know you are using a steam engine, however with a steam oil lubricator which contains mineral based steam oils.........
Many think it good to spray WD40 or RP7 aerosols into our small steam engines to stop corrosion........yes good for steel components, however these WD40 and RP7 fluids contain chemicals that prematurely soften & degrade
o-ring elastomers......