For what its worth the palest lead colour is always the signal, and on all receivers I have met the signal wire is always closest to the electronics.
Darkest wire is negative and the other is positive. Negative is usually (but not universally) the furthest from the electronics of the receiver, with pos in the middle. They are arranged, I think in this way so that there is no smoke emitted if they are put in the receiver the wrong way round - but there is no servoing either!
I have one ancient sanwa servo where all three wires are black, and I had to take a guess at what they were, and got it right.
andrew