Well, I'm going to throw my hat in the ring and tell you what I use and why.
My transmitter is a JR 9Channel and I use a variety of receivers with it , from 4 to 9 channel depending on what controls I need and what receivers I have laying around. I do believe that Futaba, Sanwa, and Hitec are all in about the same class and quality.
Cons: Initial cost is quite high, especially compared to the cheap Hong Kong units for example
Pros: Simply by changing the RF module I can be on any legal Mhz band or 2.4Ghz - versatile
The transmitter can store 30 models (including names) - more than I'll ever need
Digital trims can't be inadverently changed when packing up - reliability
6 programmable mixes plus 2 dedicated mixes cover most situations I can think of - no need for after market mixers (Sorry FLJ)
Should I ever decide to try out another branch of R/C modelling (gliders, planes or helis) my transmitter has the built in software to handle that
Mechanical components are top quality so no play or roughness
Well known worldwide manufacturer with a reputation to maintain. Spare parts are a phone call away, as are matching receivers, servos, and battery packs.
I may never have to buy another transmitter again, and this one transmitter will do it all.