I see. Perhaps the valve could be operated from a cam on the servo instead of a crank, and the valve returns via a sprung loaded plunger- e.g. the way poppet valve on a four stroke engine works. it would require a bit of expermentation with spring tension to ensure the valve fully returns each time. If you used tyre valves, which I think I originally suggested, this is already done for you.
Another way is electronic. A microcontroller between the servo and receiver would throw the servo when the stick is moved one way, to actuate the valve. When the stick is thrown the other way, the servo is kept in it's closed position, and a transistor or relay is operated to switch on the pump.